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$80,000 to a matchmaker and still getting ghosted.
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That is a true story of one of our ready for love clients,
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a super successful business woman.
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In fact, her company was even featured on the
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show, undercover Boss.
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So she’s no slouch.
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And this is just one of hundreds of stories
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that I’ve heard over the years from women who’ve invested in
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a matchmaker only to end up
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with the same disappointing experiences in dating.
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Whether you’re on the apps, meeting men in real life,
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or maybe considering hiring a matchmaker too.
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What we hear, my team and I, what we hear over
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and over again is this,
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I’m not meeting anyone I’m remotely interested in.
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The men I meet aren’t at my level professionally,
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financially, intellectually, or spiritually.
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There’s just a mismatch in values or lifestyle or ambition.
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There are no good men in my town.
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Dating in my city is a challenge.
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Where are all the good men?
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And if this is what is happening
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and who you’re attracting, then of course it makes sense
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that you think the problem is that you’re not finding him.
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And it makes sense why so many women believe
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that a matchmaker could just be the answer.
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Let’s outsource the whole thing.
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Let someone else do all the legwork
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of finding you a great guy
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and vetting him to make sure that he’s for real.
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I get it. But if any of this sounds like you,
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this episode is going to save you time, energy, frustration,
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and at least $5,000
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because that is pretty much the starting fee
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for hiring a matchmaker.
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Because the reality is this, it is not about
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who you are meeting, not finding him
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isn’t actually the real problem.
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What matters far more than who you are meeting is
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who you are being.
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So I’m going to tell you what I mean by
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who you are being in just a minute.
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But first, if you keep telling yourself you’re just not
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meeting the right men, or there are no good men in your city
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or in your town, it does feel like that is the problem,
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but it’s not actually the problem at all.
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It’s problematic for sure,
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but it’s actually the symptom of a deeper problem
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because the, the truth is there are plenty
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of high quality men who want
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to be in a relationship in every city,
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and lots of women are meeting them.
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My clients are meeting them. So why not you?
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If you are consistently attracting duds,
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you’re just not attracting
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or meeting high quality men, then all the signs point to you
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as the common denominator.
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And I say this with all the love in the world
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because I am your biggest champion and I want you to win.
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So please just hear me out here.
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Okay, so let’s talk about what I mean by who you are being.
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Imagine a tree.
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The leaves on the tree are at the very top
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and it represents the surface level things
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that you’re experiencing out there when you’re dating
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and getting into relationships.
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So on the apps, it’s not enough matches
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or too many matches of the wrong kind.
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Men who are flaky
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and it just feels exhausting to date on online
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or in real life, men don’t approach you.
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You’ve been told you’re intimidating
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or your lifestyle doesn’t give you access to meeting men.
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Then there’s the early stages of dating someone.
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The ghosting thinks fading or fizzling, right?
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When you start to get excited, the one date wonder,
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which is when you have a really great first date,
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so you think, and then you never hear from him again,
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and it leaves you wondering, what did I do wrong?
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It’s getting love bombed
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or constantly ignoring red flags that you see,
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but you, you dismiss.
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It’s about the kind of men that you’re attracting,
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unavailable, immature, underemployed, narcissistic,
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or maybe dealing with addictions just
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simply not at your level.
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And it’s your track record in relationships.
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Maybe you’re always just getting disappointed in some way.
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Maybe you’ve been betrayed.
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Maybe you can’t rely on the men
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that you end up in relationships with.
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Maybe you never seem to feel valued or like a priority
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or you end up in one-sided dynamics
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where it’s always about him and never about you.
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Those are the leaves of the tree.
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And I know it feels like a really big problem if you’re
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experiencing any of that, and it’s very painful
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and frustrating, I know.
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But none of that is actually the real problem.
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All of that is just the symptom of a deeper problem.
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And if you just keep focusing on the leaves,
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you’re chasing symptoms, chasing your tail,
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and you will never get ahead of this issue
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and you will continue to recreate the same patterns
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over and over again.
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So now we’re gonna go to the next layer down,
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which is the tree trunk.
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And this represents how you’re showing up in your love life,
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your emotional state, your energy, and your vibe.
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So maybe you’re full of self-doubt, questioning yourself
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or second guessing yourself.
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Maybe you’re anxious or fearful
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or ambivalent, which is you want love,
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but you kind of don’t at the same time.
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So you’re guarded and maybe you’re starving for attention
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or validation, which can just come across
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as being overly eager or even desperate.
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Or on the flip side,
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you come across aloof like you’ve got your walls up
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and you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop.
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Or maybe you’re like deer in the headlights
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because you’re not sure what you want
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or how to make it happen or how to date at all.
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So here’s the thing, you look the part on the outside.
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You’ve done a great job and there’s so much to be proud of.
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You take good care of yourself, you dress well,
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you look the part, you have the success and the lifestyle
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and the friends and everybody loves you.
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All those things. You are a shiny object.
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You are a sparkly little object shining in the water.
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You’re noticeable. You’re going to get attention, yes,
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from all the men, you’re gonna turn heads,
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but the second that they catch wind of this vibe,
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they can sniff this vibe from you a mile away.
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And here’s the thing, it attracts all the sharks.
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It’s blood in the water for the sharks.
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The kind of men that you don’t wanna be
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with will take a beeline straight for you.
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They can see it and smell it and sniff it out a mile away.
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And they’re thinking, there’s my woman, a nurse, a purse,
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an att m, someone to help raise my kids, someone
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to help me start my business.
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All of those things. Whereas the kind of men
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that you really wanna be with, the men that you dream about
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or aspire to be with, high quality men who are healthy
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and stable and sexy and secure, they notice you too.
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But the second that they sniff this vibe,
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they turn the other way
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because this is not who they want to be with.
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They want to be with a woman who doesn’t just look the part,
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but feels the part and is the part on the inside too.
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And I know you’re thinking, well, what does this have to do
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with meeting anybody?
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Maybe once I meet him that might happen,
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but like attracts like my dear.
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So as you’re listening, think about this.
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This is what the law of attraction states at its most simple
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form like.
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Like if you are showing up in your love life, not sure
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of yourself insecure, having hangups, worried, anxious,
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ambivalent, being hard on yourself,
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not feeling good about yourself, not believing
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that it’s possible, beating up on yourself
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because you’re a perfectionist
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and you can’t give yourself a break
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and you’re critical of yourself
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and nothing that you ever do is good enough for you.
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Who do you think is going to come knocking?
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You are a magnet for men who also do that to themselves.
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They feel the way that they feel about themselves, the same
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that you do about yourself.
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And it looks like the men are the problem. Okay?
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That is how it works.
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If you are showing up a people pleaser
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and overly accommodating and agreeable
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and not sure that you can be your true, authentic self
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and that you have to change who you are for somebody
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to like you, that insecurity
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and fear about being your authentic self is going
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to attract men who need you, who wanna take advantage
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of you, who don’t feel good about themselves,
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the narcissist type.
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You are a puzzle piece shaped the way that you are.
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And if you keep showing up in your love life,
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this puzzle piece, you’re going
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to keep finding men who fit that.
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That is why this is so essential and so important.
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And this takes us to the roots of the tree, the roots
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that feed the whole system, your subconscious fears
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and your beliefs, your early defining experiences.
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And this is how you feel about yourself
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and what you think about yourself
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and how you talk to yourself in your head.
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It’s what you believe about yourself
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and what’s possible for you.
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It’s who you think you are and how you talk to yourself,
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and how you relate to yourself
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and what you think of yourself, your identity.
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It’s the wounds and the traumas
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that you’ve carried your whole life.
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And it’s also what was modeled
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for you about relationships when you were growing up,
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what you saw and witnessed between your parents
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or primary caregivers.
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So when you put all of this together,
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it makes perfect sense why this part
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of your life is hard for you.
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And the truth is you just can’t fake it.
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You cannot stuff all of that down
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and just pretend despite looking the part on the outside.
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All of this oozes out of you.
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It’s just a vibe and an energy.
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It’s behind everything that you do, in every moment
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or interaction that you have with men.
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And it sends a message to the universe, this is who I am.
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Send me my match.
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This is why doing identity work is everything.
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It’s the gateway to everything that you want.
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So it’s not about what you’re doing, it’s about
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who you are when you’re doing it.
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It’s about who you are being. It’s not who you are meeting.
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It is who you are being.
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You have to be who you need to be in order
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to attract the kind of men that you want for yourself.
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You can look the part on the outside polished and successful
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and beautiful and put together.
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But if deep down you are doubting yourself
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and questioning yourself
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and not trusting yourself, if you’re unkind to yourself
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or insecure or just don’t believe love is possible for you,
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or you expect to be hurt
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or disappointed, that energy will always betray
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you again and again.
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You cannot just focus on what you’re doing on the surface
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or how you look on the outside.
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You have to be the high value woman on the inside.
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A woman who believes it’s possible, who trusts herself,
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who listens to herself instead of doubting
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and questioning a woman who knows her worth
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and her value is internal
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and not tied to her external achievements or accomplishments
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or from a man picking her
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and a woman who makes herself a priority
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and treats herself the way she wants to be treated.
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You can’t expect anyone, let alone a man
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to make you a priority when you don’t.
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When you’ve put yourself last again
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and again, you must go first
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and then everything else follows.
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And that is actually the best news that I can tell you
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because you have 100% control over that.
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And this is the main reason why hiring a matchmaker
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to find your person doesn’t work for the majority
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of people who hire them.
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And most dating coaches, programs
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and all the conventional dating advice out there only
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focuses on the leaves of the tree.
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What to do when you’re dating, send this text,
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say this thing, sign up for that app, act this way.
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Be that way. Men find this attractive, men like women
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who do this, all of that is prescribed.
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It’s a prescription. You can do everything you’re supposed
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to do, but if
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underneath you’re not being the woman who’s ready
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to receive healthy love, none
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of it will land the way that you want it to.
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So let’s put all this together.
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If you keep running into the same patterns,
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and if you’re not attracting the kind of quality men
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that you wanna be with the right men for you, instead
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of feeling frustrated
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or losing hope that there are no good men out there,
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pause for a second.
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Because when you’re focused on the leaves,
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only on the symptoms, you end up in this
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negative feedback loop repeating the same patterns all the
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while blaming men, the apps, the whole dating world
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or your small town, just starting to really believe
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that love isn’t possible for you.
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The real shift comes when you are just willing
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to ask yourself, how am I showing up?
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What am I bringing?
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How could I possibly be contributing to this in some way?
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This is the foundation of ready for love,
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and it is essentially identity work.
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Yeah, we show women how to date
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and how to trust their picker
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and get clear who their ideal man is
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and help with profile writing and flirting
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and all that fun stuff.
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But why we are so successful with our clients is
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because we go to the deepest levels, the tree trunk
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and the roots of the tree too.
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And if you want anything in your life, you have
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to first become the version of you
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who can live the life that you want.
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Once you get it, let me say that again.
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To get anything in your life,
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you must first become the version of you who is capable
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of living that life, that future life.
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You have to be your future self first. You have to go first.
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And when you shift who you are at the core in your being,
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doors open everywhere.
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Our clients don’t just get the love they want.
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They start getting opportunities and money
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and abundance and success.
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It opens up a world of infinite possibilities.
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And as I once heard someone say, not even the sky
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is the limit when you are in that state.
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So I just implore you to please be willing
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to look in the mirror and look under the hood.
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This is the answer, I promise.
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If you truly want love to come into your life,
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you must be the version of you who is ready to receive it.
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That’s when everything changes.
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If you feel ready to take that next step,
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please just book a call with my team and I.
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We are here and ready to talk to you.
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Go to ready for love inc.com/apply.
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Thanks for listening, and I’ll see you next time.
