Ready for Love

A revolutionary transformation for smart single women who are ready to end their search for real love!

Attract your equal, stop settling + have the deeply fulfilling relationship you crave.


You’re stuck in a pattern where the men you aren’t interested in pursue you, but the ones you are interested in don’t?

You settle for men or relationships that don’t feel right for you and even put up with crap from men that you wouldn’t do in other areas of your life.

You’ll date someone for a month and just when you are starting to get excited he disappears, ghosts, it fizzles out or ends abruptly.

You’ve worked on yourself a lot and still none of the therapy, self-help books or seeking have actually helped you breakthrough this problem!

You keep attracting the same wrong-for-you man over and over; fixer uppers, users, men who won’t commit or are emotionally unavailable? And then stay too long & try to make it work.

You’re starting to lose confidence…wondering if maybe there’s something wrong or defective with you and wondering if you’ll be alone for the rest of your life.

You wish ...


I see you

and I totally understand exactly what this is like for you… 



What it would feel like to meet an amazing man and deep down believe that you are more than enough for this great guy.

Imagine going home to this man who is eager to see you and hear from you- a man who values your input and is there for you 100%.You feel supported, seen, heard and loved!

“Thank you for helping me find love and telling me f*ck yes, I am worthy!!”

I was stuck in thinking negative things, you know..waiting for the other shoe to fall…but I listened to Hilary’s videos again and remembered that I control my thoughts and my actions. I needed to be positive and patient. I don’t need to obsess about things that are out of my control. This love is different than I have ever known. Thank you Hilary for helping me find myself again!!



You’re stuck in a pattern where the men you aren’t interested in pursue you, but the ones you are interested in don’t?

You’ll date someone for a month and just when you are starting to get excited he backpedals or ghosts you, it fizzles out or ends abruptly

You keep attracting fixer uppers, users, narcissists, men who won’t commit or are emotionally unavailable? And then stay too long & try to make it work.

You settle for men or relationships that don’t feel right for you and even put up with crap from men that you wouldn’t do in other areas of your life. 

You’ve researched attachment styles and narcissism, have worked on yourself a lot and still none of the therapy, self-help books or seeking have actually helped you breakthrough this problem!

And… you wish “PA-LEASE for the love of God… someone would just tell me what I’ve been missing?””

That’s why I created

The ESSENTIAL life and relationship skills and training you never got and the ONLY comprehensive online course combining the best of therapy + coaching + dash of the WOO.

Neurobiology, Cognitive Processes, Emotional Intelligence + Relationship & Communication Skills and Tools.

“It was a wake up call that I was doing things to attract the men I didn’t want!”

This program works! I remember my first conversation with Hilary Silver. I remember feeling so discouraged describing all my failed relationships wondering what I was doing wrong. I have spent a lot of time working on myself and it paid off! (now married to the love of her life)


“Now, I cannot imagine one day without this man.”

The last 3.5 years, I learned to adjust and accept being single. I learned to make me a priority and I learned to love me. Then this handsome man came along in January. I struggled with the idea of not being single early in the relationship. Loving and accepting someone as long-term partner again did not come easy for me. Chad was very patient and understanding. I am very grateful he never gave up on me. Now, I cannot imagine one day without this man. He is my HELL yeah PERSON without a shadow of a doubt. Together, we have learned how to adjust to all the many changes of the world. We have also been on so many adventures and made so many memories this year together. I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with this man. On October 17, 2020 Chad asked me to marry him. Of course I said YES!!!!!!


Inside the ready for love program, you WILL…

Learn a new model of relationships that will revolutionize your life so you can navigate power issues, healthy boundaries and the flow of give and take with your partner.

Heal the parts of you that keep you settling and believing you can’t get or don’t deserve more. 

Finally see your blind spots and why all of this is happening to you, when intellectually you know you’re a great catch! 

Do the deep work to re-program your mindset, beliefs and psychology so you build an entirely new paradigm for love and what is possible for you. 

Learn the tools and skills to fully express yourself authentically and with dignity and grace. 

Make peace with your past so you can shed the baggage and emotional blocks keeping real love from coming into your life.

“I’ve found my perfect man and I’ve never been happier!!”

Just do this program and become the BEST version of yourself that you didn’t even know was even possible! Thank you, Hilary!!


”I have found love. I would not be here without your help”

Hilary, I wanted you to know I have found love. He is a great guy. I would not be here without your help. Thanks for believing in me.



You might as well stop dating until you’ve done this program!

…Because until you learn what I’m about to teach you, you’re only going to repeat the same patterns you’ve been experiencing, your entire life.

Over. And Over. And Over Again.

Creating more evidence that love isn’t possible for you.

Reinforcing your deep down beliefs that you’re not good enough or lovable.


Spending time and energy swiping, checking your phone, obsessing 

Going on dates with the wrong men or not getting second dates with men you like 

Confused about what you’re doing wrong 

Starting to feel like something is wrong with you or you’re not worthy or deserving of love 

Therapy, yoga, meditation, books

Eating, shopping, working a lot or staying as busy as you can to fill your time and to avoid feeling lonely


Finally seeing exactly where you’ve been going wrong in all your relationships, what to do differently and how to do it 

Feeling genuinely confident, worthy, deserving and capable of being in love with a healthy secure man 

Only spending time going on dates with men who have real potential and being able to keep his attention just by being your true self 

Trusting yourself to pick the right men, knowing how to navigate all the stages of dating and that you’ll never settle again

Feeling inner peace and deeply content within yourself, knowing it’s happening and what to do when it IS happening 

Ready for LOVE is like therapy and love coaching on steroids.

Think... be your best self meets relationship mastery!

Here’s a Breakdown of what you’ll learn

Each module contains videos with a total of over 15 hours of coaching – along with intentionally designed therapeutic homework, journaling and exercises to help you apply what you are learning into your life!

Welcome +

Celebrating your powerful decision to step up for yourself! We’ll cover how to make the absolute most of this course and the best way to handle those moments when it feels emotional or challenging! 

Module One:
A New Model of Love

In this module you’ll get the bird’s eye view of your entire love life so you can see everything with hyper clarity. Where you’ve gone wrong in the past (and why) and what you are striving for as you move forward in creating your ideal relationship. 

Module Two:
Mindset, Manifesting & Magnetism

In this module you will learn how to cultivate the mindset for success in all areas of your life. You learn a new daily journaling method with guided visualizations that will change your life forever. This allows you to raise your vibrational frequency and your energetic level so you become truly magnetic and manifest anything you want in your life.

Module Three:
Letting Love In

In this module you’ll do the deepest inner work you’ve ever done by unearthing all the subconscious blocks holding you back so you can claim your new identity. 

Module Four:
Being Irresistible

In this module you’ll learn to cultivate a rock solid unshakeable relationship with yourself.

Module Six:
Date Like a Diva

In this module, you’ll learn the ‘rules’ for dating and when it’s ok to break them so you can keep the attention of the men you are interested in and gracefully exit when you’re not. 

Module Seven:
Communication That Connects

In this module you’ll learn how to be an effective communicator so you can be fully expressed, ask for what you need or feel heard without being afraid of messing things up. 

Module Eight:
Keep Your Momentum

This is just a motivational message of staying true and committed to doing this important work so you don’t slip backwards and what to do if/when that occurs. 


And here's the other juicy stuff I'm giving you


My Famous
“What To Say When He…” Training
($1000 Value)

This is a recording of a super fun and entertaining live trainings with Hilary and head coach Jamie, full of actionable advice. You’ll learn exactly what to say or do when he catches you off guard with red flag behavior or he creates an awkward situation so that you can be comfortable and feel confident navigating anything that comes your way when dating.


“MANifest Your MAN” Workshop
($2000 Value)

This is a recording of a live 3 hour workshop where I’m teaching you exactly what you need to do to manifest LOVE and anything else you want!

It’s like magic… except it’s real!

Some of what you will learn: Why you keep attracting unavailable, non committal or narcissistic men and how to break that painful pattern fast. The exact things you are thinking, feeling and believing that actually INVITE men to ghost, flake, or string you along so you can shift it now. How to stop settling for less than you desire in a partner or a relationship or just “making it work” – and how to step into the realm of infinite possibility for your love life (and beyond).


6, 2 hour Live Q and A Coaching Calls with Hilary
($12000 Value)


But yours today for only $3,000

Wondering if you're right for the program…

You’re a high achieving woman whose got it all: successful career, wealth, beautiful home, amazing family and friends, yet dating, love and relationships is the one last piece of your life that hasn’t worked out for you. 

You are totally committed to do the deep, inner work because our program is like executive coaching for your love and personal life. You’ll be getting your “PhD in relationships” with us!

You believe in taking responsibility for your past, present and future and are committed to evolving into the absolute best version of yourself.

You understand that growth requires courage and trusting the process even when it’s uncomfortable. 

You get that I can expedite the healing + finding love process, but that YOU have to show up for yourself and remain committed to doing the work. 

Celebrations from our Ready for Love clients

“My life will never be the same”

I wanted to express my heartfelt thanks to your team for turning my life around! Soon after completing your course I changed my entire attitude and behavior about myself and the men I was dating.

I implemented the “visualize yourself in 5-year plan’ and where I want to be then. This concept and way of thinking transformed me! I was totally blind sighted last weekend when the gentleman (i.e. man of my dreams) proposed to me and put a 3-carat diamond on my finger! We started dating upon my conclusion of your program and my life will never be the same!!!

Words cannot express my appreciation and thankfulness for your team and the transformation that occurred in my heart and mind! Thanks to you my retirement starts December 20th with a 10-day trip to Canada with him. When we return we will anticipate our wedding February 15th.

Again, thanks!!!!! Wow what a whirlwind this has been!!!


You can complete the course lessons from the comfort and privacy of your couch or kitchen table, as long as you have an internet connection!

The entire program is completely digital so you can access it from anywhere through our private course portal.

The Bottom Line is this...

You’ll emerge as the most authentic, empowered, feminine, radiant, loving and capable version of yourself.

A woman who knows her worth, trusts herself and can confidently navigate relationships with ease and grace. 

Time and again our clients share how how the work they’ve done in this program changed their entire life…

you’ve got two choices...

You can keep working hard at this, using an outdated strategy or no strategy at all… Continue to make the same mistakes and mess things up with quality men… And become more frustrated, sad, lonely and confused OR… 

You can have major relationship breakthroughs right away and start showing up the best you ever!

If you’re ready to stop wasting precious time that you could be sharing with someone, then the Ready for LOVE program is the online course that will change everything for you.

There has never been a better time than now to learn how to be successful in loving relationships.

Starting this program now will:

 Save you so much time, money and heartache.

You might as well stop dating until you’ve done this program
because until you learn what I’m about to teach you, you’re only going to unknowingly continue to repeat the same patterns you’ve been experiencing, your entire life.

What if 6 months from now you are in the exact same place you are right now?

What if in that time, you mess things up with an amazing man or repeat the pattern yet again?

You’ll wish you had started today!

You can do this even if you’re broke, busy or have tried everything else and nothing’s worked!

Most of our clients have done therapy, Tony Robbins, Landmark, matchmakers, dating coaches… and they say this is the one program that helped them breakthrough.

This will take about 2-4 hours a week of your time. If you watch 3 shows per week, then you can do this! Do you want to watch someone else’s love life on the screen or live your own love story?

You’d spend this same amount on counseling for a couple of sessions and just be getting to know that person… still confused and wasting your time.

Still have questions? I've got answers.

Digitally… you will log in, create your account and get started immediately. Every 7 days, you’ll be granted access to the next module. We do this so that you can fully absorb and integrate all that you are learning.

This is a fully self-study program. Hilary accepts a few private clients at a time in the multiple 5 figure investment range. Please email us to inquire.

You will have access to these materials for one year but it is our hope that you will make the most of it and complete the materials and homework within 8-10 weeks because immersion works best! Be ALL IN just like you want to be with a partner.
In short, no. This program is a digital product which means it can’t be returned. You get access to 15 hours of teaching and all our digital property upon enrollment.

what happens when you enroll?

Step 1: Enroll in Ready for LOVE

Purchase the program with payment plan or full-pay option.

Step 2: You’ll receive a welcome email with all the details

Receive email with your login info and answers to common questions.

Step 3: You’ll get immediate access to the course

The welcome module and module 1 will be waiting for you so you can get started right away.

It's that easy!

For less than a handful of useless therapy sessions, you can finally have all the answers, breakthroughs and ‘a-ha’ moments that change your love life forever!

I’m Hilary,

A highly trained clinical therapist turned master coach with 20 years of experience working with thousands of clients on the toughest life and relationship issues.

After struggling with my own not-enoughness, feelings of unworthiness and one disappointing heartbreak after another… I cracked the code on what it takes to have a healthy lasting passionate relationship and I’ve now been with my husband over 20 years.

For the last 4 years I’ve dedicated my company to helping women step into their most EXTRAORDINARY self so they too, can attract their true equal partner and be as successful in their love life as they are in the rest of their life.

I’ve been featured on Steve Harvey show & regularly on Tv News.

He proposed at the top of Pike’s Peak.”

We are getting ready to celebrate two years. We got engaged in August. He proposed at the top of Pike’s Peak. It was breathtaking…literally I almost passed out because of the altitude. He’s an amazing guy!


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