High-achieving women do not struggle in love because they lack options but because success can become a very polished form of self-protection.
This week, I’m sharing a conversation from my guest appearance on Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby’s Love, Happiness, and Success podcast right here on my own channel because it was too good not to bring home. We talk about why so many successful women can build incredible lives and still feel completely thrown off in love. Why does confidence disappear the second feelings get real? Why do smart women over give, overthink, or shut down when what they want most is connection?
Dr. Lisa and I get into the patterns I see all the time in women who look amazing on paper and feel frustrated in their love lives: the pleaser, the perfectionist, and the pusher. We talk about the fear underneath all of it, the armor women mistake for standards, and what starts to shift when you stop trying to earn love and let yourself be fully seen.