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What men want more than sex.
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Six compliments. Men are dying to hear
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three confident female mindsets that drive guys wild.
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Seven things men need more than sex to fall in love.
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How to inspire a man to show up fully for you.
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Five texts to make any man obsess over you.
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What a man is thinking when he ignores you.
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Can you guess the topic of our conversation today?
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Yes, we are talking about the worst dating advice for women,
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and this just makes me so mad.
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I literally pulled these off of some
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of the biggest YouTube channels out there.
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And yeah, it’s all really clickbait
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and maybe why some of those channels are
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so big in the first place
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because who doesn’t wanna know how
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to make a man feel intense love and desire for you?
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But I am going to show you why all of this is so very wrong
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and instead really the only dating advice you will ever
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need,
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Feminine energy moves that make him melt.
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How to get a guy to like you again, five texts
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to make a man fall in love with you.
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How to make men worship you like the queen you are,
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oh my God, I’m trying not to laugh
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and be mad at the same time.
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It really is just such b******t.
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And while all of that might be intriguing
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or fascinating to know, I’m going to share
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with you four reasons why all of that kind
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of dating advice leads down a rabbit hole of toxic
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bullshitty advice for women.
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So first, it’s a marketing tactic
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that relies on dark psychology.
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Dark psychology deals with the darker side
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of human behavior such as gaslighting, narcissism,
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manipulation, deception and persuasion tactics.
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So it’s really about using covert influence to get someone
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to do what you want them to do.
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All to control, dominate influence,
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or take advantage of others.
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It sounds gross, right?
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So in this case, it is being used on you
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and then it encourages you to engage in it.
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Here’s how these kinds
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of clickbait promises are exploiting and manipulating women.
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It’s taking advantage of women who are looking for help,
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maybe women are who are looking for help, are feeling lonely
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or sad or hopeless or rejected
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because they just got broken up with they’re heartbroken.
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And these promise a quick, easy fix to solve the pain
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and inconvenience of a problem rather than
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actually helping women for real.
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So just get the guy to like you again.
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Just get your ex back.
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Just get ’em to ask you out so
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that you can feel better about yourself so
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that you can can just feel lovable or worthy.
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The goal here for them is to get you to click,
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get you to watch the video,
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and then ultimately to buy something.
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But also, which leads me to the second reason,
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it is teaching dark psychology tactics
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and is encouraging you to engage in these toxic,
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unhealthy, disempowering behaviors.
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Listen to me right now, never do anything with the goal
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of getting someone else to do something
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that is manipulation.
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It’s totally gamey high quality men don’t fall
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for it anyway, and you just can’t control
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what other people are going to do.
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It’s also just completely inauthentic.
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So that causes all kinds of problems.
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You end up overthinking your every move rather than just
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instinctively responding
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and being yourself, being inauthentic pulls you away
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from your true, authentic self.
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And then you end up betraying yourself
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and abandoning your, abandoning yourself
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every step of the way.
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When you’re not showing up as your real, true,
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authentic self, you’ll never really be loved for
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who you are, only for what you have shown them,
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which is a false version of you.
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The third reason is this is prescriptive. It’s prescribed.
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Do this thing, do that thing.
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Text this, say this, act this way.
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Just follow the rules
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and do what some person tells you to do,
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which has you looking outside of yourself
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for the answers rather than turning inward.
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And if you’re always going to do what other people tell you
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to do, you can’t just relax.
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You’re always gonna be looking outside of yourself
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for the answers, for someone else to help you,
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rather than just trust your intuition, trust yourself
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and relax and just be you knowing
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that you have all the answers that you need
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inside of yourself.
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When you show up that way, you’re relaxed
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and you’re trusting yourself
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and you’re just going with what feels right for you.
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You will always win.
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And everything that you do has a different energy around it.
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And finally, reason number four,
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that makes me the maddest of all.
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It’s so man-centered rather than woman-centered,
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self-centered, all of this advice is about him,
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what he wants, how to please him, how to make him happy.
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It has you bending and twisting
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and abandoning yourself all to just get the guy,
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and you get the guy by being what he wants you to be.
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It is straight up patriarchal conditioning.
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It’s the same old message.
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Women have been fed for generations
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that there’s a certain way to be in order to be loved.
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It reinforces the belief that you have to be someone
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that you’re not in order to be chosen.
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And ultimately, it’s what the younger kids are calling now,
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pick me energy, pick me, pick me, please just pick me.
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It is so disempowering to women and it is so very damaging
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because the goal becomes to get the guy instead
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of be the woman
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who naturally attracts the right man when you’re being
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your authentic self.
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So here’s the truth. The only dating advice
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that you will ever need is this.
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Trust yourself. It is all about you.
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What you want and what you think and what you feel
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and what feels right for you and what doesn’t.
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Learn to tune in instead of second guessing
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or doubting or tuning out.
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When you stop questioning your actions, your needs,
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your feelings and your worth,
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you will always know exactly what to do.
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And this is what makes Ready for love so different
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because at the core, it is not about tricks or tactics
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or dark psychology or manipulation
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or getting him to do anything.
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It’s about building the kind of relationship with yourself
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that allows you to show up this way.
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Most women already know what they need to do
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and what they don’t know is how to get there.
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That is our job,
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and we are the absolute best in the world at it.
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When you do this deeper work on yourself,
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the whole game changes.
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You stop chasing, you stop twisting yourself into pretzels,
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and you finally become the woman
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who naturally attracts the kind of love that you’ve wanted,
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all along with ease and grace.
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And it’s just effortless
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and it’s actually fun and enjoyable.
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If you’re ready to naturally just attract the kind of love
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that you’ve always wanted
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and stop all the game playing, all the manipulation,
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all the shallow surface level dating advice
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that has you spinning in circles
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and going nowhere, just apply to speak with us.
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